Thank you for the links and the links for your club. My brother was arrested for harassment because he yelled at her because of the gambling. All she had to do was to say she feared for her life and she knew the police would get him out of the house and get her some time to plan. His lawyer is trying to get the harassment order overturned but so far he hasn’t heard anything from her yet. I’m not sure how experienced this lawyer is in family law and I think he may have made a mistake by getting a lawyer so fast. And if you take out a loan you should do it only from reputable websites.
It’s a shame what is being done to men these days. The woman is looked upon as the victim no matter if she is the perpetrator or not. This case just proves that men are not allowed to speak up for themselves without being hauled off into court. You don’t have to lay a hand on a woman to get thrown into jail.
My brother knows of a guy who went into his trailer one day and found his wife in bed with another man. The husband, enraged over the situation, later tore their marriage certificate into little pieces. He now has a 2 year restraining order against him, cannot go to his trailer (which he owned before he met the woman), and faces jail time. She is currently living with her boyfriend in the trailer. When first hearing this story, I had some trouble believing it could be true. Then, last Saturday, I saw on the show Cops a policeman stating that you cannot destroy property in your home – if the spouse complains, you will be arrested. Patrick Roy (pronounced WAA) who plays for the hockey team The Avalanche here in Denver was arrested not too long ago for punching his closet door after getting into a verbal fight with his wife.
Anyway, thanks for letting me vent and thanks for telling me about your club.